Sasha White

It doesn’t matter if you’re married or single, male or female…We all have them.
Some are sexual, some or emotional. The best are both.

And to me, the best stories are both. AND…I firmly believe that fantasties can come true.

That’s what I enjoy the best about writing. I love to write stories about real people put into real situations that make them work and fight for their dreams and fantasies. I doesn’t matter if that fantasy is to find a hidden treasure, a killer, or a man that can give you multiple orgasms. Or even better…a man that WANTS to give you mulitple orgasms. *grin*

I do sometimes find it a bit of a contradiction that I love to write stories about “real every day characters” yet I seem to have a fascination with fantasies. Some people would say it’s because writing about them is a way to live them vicariously, but I don’t think that’s true because I’ve actually managed to live out most of my fantasies.

I think my top fantasy is a threeseome with two men. I think som eimages of two men together are hot, but really, I want allthe attention on me. Yup, to be the center of attention between two very hot and devoted men. However, it’s not one I’ll ever live out, not sure why< i just don’t thinkI coudl actually do it. But the fantasy is always a pleasure. :razz:

What is your top fantasy? Have you ever shared it with your Signifigant Other or is it a “secret”? AND, Given a chance to live it out…would you?

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I have to tell you all how much I LOVE this idea. Sylvia shows her humor and imagination is in great form with this story. Check it out!

Treasure Hunters
Part of the DREAMS OF THE OASIS 2 from Elloras Cave

Mercenary/treasure hunter Rick Bronson is ready to hunt down his next treasure—erotic e-books hidden away when erotic romance was banned by the Conservative Censorship Committee. His first order of business is securing the help of literary antiquities expert Samantha Tremain. She’s considered one of the foremost authorities on erotic literature in the galaxy, a veritable bounty of carnal knowledge that Rick intends to enjoy to the fullest. Now two people who couldn’t be more different race across the galaxy on a daring quest for untold riches. Together, success is within their grasp…if they can just get past the hands-on research.

Doesn’t this sound absolutely great? I admit it…I’m jealous she came up with the idea and I didn’t. LOL But that won;t stop me from reading it!

Read an Excerpt:
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My post on this subject is over at the SEx Blog today. Go read it. :)

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I had a lazy day today. It was actually quite nice since it came after a pretty interesting night. I went in to work last night and it was dead quiet. I think everyone spent their money watching the hockey playoffs, plus the weather has been gorgeous so people aren’t really into hangin out in the bars. By 9:30 my manager asked if I wanted to go home early and I said yes. I sat at the bar after work, had a couple drinks and chatted with some guys, then I headed home while I could still drive. Thise two drinks tasted very verey good. They tasted like more.

So I stopped at the liquer store on the way home and picked up some Peach Ciders. I’d have preffered Pear, but they didn’t have any, so peach was ok. I was debating changing my clothes and heading out to a bar to play pool. I have no problems going out by myself. I’m not shy most of the time and there’s always someone around to play pool with. I could’ve went to see some friends I knew were out but that would’ve required driving, or a long cab ride, and I wanted to drink.

I cracked open a cider, checked my email and low and behold.. a couple of intersting emails from that new singles ad I placed.

One included a phone number so I called the guy, and we started chatting. It was good, we talked about everything under the sun, sex, relationships, jobs, everything. He’s not looking for serious, (just got out of a 5 year relationship) but he is looking for more than sex. I told him a bit of my history with men, the whole ‘only sex’ thing that tends to happen. He said sex on the first date is Bad if I like a guy, no matter what men say. Then an hour later he was mad at himself cuz I told him he’d have to wait a couple dates cuz I liked him.

I mentioned that if I do like a guy alot, sometimes I get too agressive. He was very easy to talk to. ANd sort of insightful too. He picked up on somethings I never said, or even admitteed to others. It was good. Maybe phone dating is good for me cuz then I don’t have to worry about my own lack of self control if the guy is hot.

Anyway, we talked for over 6 hours!!! This is amazing as my friends know, I’m not one for phone conversations. When we hung up he asked for my number (because I’d called him) and said he’d call and wanted to go out. We’ll see if he actually does. Anyway, IF he does call….does a 6.5 phone conversation count as a first date?

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I want to tell you about my day.

I woke up full of energy. (Okay, so it was almost noon, but hey, I write until the wee hours of the morning) and I went to the center to get weighed. (Plateauing after losing 12 pounds..ugh…must shake up the workouts,) Then I stopped at the post office to send off some prizes I gave away last week, and anohter setof contracts to one of my pubs, before heading to the grocery store. I got home and sat myself down out on the patio to get some sun and plot my next scene. My cat meowed at me from inside so I opened the screen door and urged her to come out.

Mystery (my cat) has never been outside before. She came halfway out onto the patio yesterday, and today she came out and walked down the edge, sticking close to the side of the building. I was laying there plotting, (enjoying the sun,) when suddenly it hit me. I never signed the contracts!

I’d made the small changes to the wording that were needed, but I’d completely forgot to sign the damn things! So I jumped up, grabbed my keys and wallet and drove over to the PO hoping to get there before the mail truck did.
I was in time, the girl laughed at me, but we opened up my envelope, I signed the contracts we resealed it and I came home.

I checked email, made myself a snak, chatted with Beth and Charli, then got up to go watch SEX AND THE CITY. I’m sitting on my futon, and I see this little grey face pressed against the patio glass.

In my mad rush to the PO, I didn’t realize I’d locked the cat outside!!

My poor baby. I opened the door she came running in the house, meowing and looking just a little crazy. Then she stuck by my side all night. Poor Mystery.

Just watch, although she acted a bit scared and a bit mad, I just know soon she’s gonna be wanting to go out there all the time now.

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The Stanely Cup playoffs are over. There’s going to be a rally downtown this afternoon forthe OILERS. Even though they didn;t win the cup, they did a fanatstic thing and the city loves them. I had an absolute blast with Beth and my online group betting on the games. (Beth lives in NC) but one thing sort of hit home withme during that time. I preferred to watch the games at home instead of at the pub.

I have a lot of friends that are completely into the games. We usually go to them a couple of times a year, the only time I see these particular frined sother than the occasional lunch as we don’t work together anymore. But they are friends for life, no matter how little or often I see them. It surprised me that I preffered to stay home and watch the games by myself instead of joining the group at the pub.

And it brought home how often I’ve chosen to stay home instead of be social. And it’s so unlike me. I used to love to be social!

So, am I just getting older? Is it becasue I write and like to live in my own head? Or am I just too lazy, or in a rut? I’ve been thinking about it..and I think it’s a combination of it all. I’m being more active, I’m losing wieght, I feel better, but I’m still not the normal me… and I think it’s because I’m just bored.

SO, I’m thinking about trying the online dating thing again.

If you read my blog on a regular basis you know that there are times when I love my life as a single, and times when I get lonely. This isn’t really one of those lonely times, but summer is here, and I need a change. I need to get out of my rut. I coudl call up some friends and make more of an effort to hang out with them, but really, the idea isn’t as appealing as it should be.

I love to flirt, and with the weather heating up…I’m loving the sight of hot guys walking around shirtless so I’ve decided I want one. And not one of the young hot studs I drool over, but a man. A real man. Someone who will hopefully make me drool…but also one to cuddle up on the sofa with. Someone who isn’t just interested in getting laid, (but he does have to love sex…cuz come on… sexual compatibility is super important) Strangely, one of the other things I want is someone to cook for. I know I know… independant woman here….but I love cooking, and really, it sucks to cook for one. I stick with the same thing all the time. Another thing I’ve been told by friends that is weird about me is that I actually want a man that works out of town.

I think having the weeek to myself and then someone to share the weekends with. Eat, go to movies, play pool whatever, then say goodbye to on Sunday night or Monday morning ….is perfect. I mean, I get to keep my freedom and my own time and space, yet some regular loving. Perfect I tell you.

Anyway, so I’m wondering if any of you have any suggestions on good singles sites? Or any experience? Or know any single men youthink might be a match?

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Todays “in general” or writing post is up at Allure Authors Blog There’s a chance to win a goodie bag so surf on over. :D

I have another post for you all, a more personal one, that I’ll put up soon. I’m still debating if I want to share that much with the world. Hard to believe I debate this stuff since I seem to tell almost everything anyway, but I might wait until I’m less…in the moment of it. Make sense?

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BOUND is now shipping from Barnes and Noble.com!! So those of you that have pre-ordered will have it in your hands within days!!

I also heard from a reader that she picked it up at a Borders store this past weekend, so it’s on shelves early!! WHoo Hooo. Yes yes, I am dancing around liek an idiot. I also got 3 Advacne copies of the book yesterday from Berkley. I have to say…it’s beautiful. So much better than just the cover jpg looks. LOL Okay, I might be biased. But hey, it’s my first!!

Tammi at Fresh Fiction says “BOUND is extremely sexy, very hot and very steamy! Told in first-person, I really felt Katie was telling me her story. And it wasn’t just about sex; it had a real storyline of dreams and heartache — the hot sex just made it even better. If you’re looking for a well-written erotic tale, I strongly suggest BOUND for your next adventure.”

soo quick…go buy it!!

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He’s on MY to do list.

Seriously, Surf on over to Access Romance for my blog post about To Do Lists. It’s the G Rated one, maybe I’ll post some of the X rated things on my list here though. What do you think? Too Much information??

Please, tell me whats on YOUR to do List. Yes, you are research for me…My current story focuses on a woman trying to work through her own TO DO list of sexual Fantasies. Maybe you can tell me some I haven’t got on the list already???

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BEFORE You read about the paramedics, adn my little question…lol take a run over to the Amber Quill Press Blog and read my post there for today. I need all the opinions I canget on that matter.

Now, ONto my Personal post for today…

Let me ask you a question. Would it be wrong to hit on a paramedic or fireman in the middle of a semi emergency?

Okay, so I didn’t hit on him. Either of them, and there was more than one hot guy in the passle of paramedics and firemen who came to my apartment building tonight.

Ok, so I was sitting on my sofa going over the page proofs for SEX AS A WEAPON when my buzzer went off. I wasn’t expecting anyone so I flipped the chanel on my TV so I could see who was at the building entrance. I didn’t recognize the lady, so I didn’t bother to answer the door. But I kept waching, and I sort of wondered what was wrong, so I grabbed my keys and figured I’d go get my mail, and see what was going on. Turns out it was my downsairs neighbor’s brother and sister trying to egt into her apartment.

The lady who lives below me is 86 years old, and diabetic, and she hadn’t answered her phone or door, and we all worried something was wrong. Of course the new building caretaker hasn’t moved in yet, so there is no one in the building who has a key to get into her apartment. A run up a ladder, and over the balcony, a broken window and we’re in. LOL
So, Milly, the lady below me, was in a bit of a state. She was awake, but unable to move and very confused. I personally think the start of a diabetic coma or soemthing. Anyway we called the ambulance…and voila, some hot men in uniform arrived.

I wasn’t needed anymore so I went back to my apartment, and let them do their thing. However, I kept thinking …”If only I lived in one of my novels.” Because you know if I did, one of those hot guys would’ve knocked on my door afterwards under the guise of needing information or something…and a new hot and sexy adventure would’ve started.

I think I have a new story idea….

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