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Monday, January 25th, 2010
Burn It To The Ground

What is it about songs that tell you to go hard, go far, go for it, go all the way that I love so much? Sure, they’re party anthems, but for me they also make me super motivated to work hard, be it in the gym, or at the keyboard. (Plus, I love Nickleback because they’re home town Alberta Boys, and they know how to rock. )

This one in particular, I just love the “That shit makes me batshit crazy” cuz, well, there are things in life that really do make me batshit crazy. LOL

Writers will tell you they put blood sweat and tears into their work, but to be honest, it doesn’t always happen. I’ve read stories that left me cold, and when that happens I often think that the author just didn’t put enough into it somehow. I know there are stories that I’ve written, that I’ve had published that I wish I’d put more-effort isn’t the right word, because there is always effort. Just that I’d put more, period. More of myself, more emotion, more energy into them. I firmly believe that when a writer puts their energy, and their emotion into the work, that it comes across on the page. That doesn’t mean I have to have experienced things, shit I write about falling in love, yet I’ve never been in love. But I do hope to be someday, and that hope goes into my stories.

The “We’ve got no fear, no doubt, all in- balls out” line of the song somehow just struck a chord about that and writing. If you want to write a good story, one that will make the reader feel emotion, then you have to put emotion into it. No holding back. SO…I’m keeping that in mind with my current stories and going hard.

Hopefully it will pay off. :)

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Thursday, January 21st, 2010
My Tips For Writers

I’ve never been a big fan of rules, in anything. However, I’ve always had my own opinions on things. I’m great at giving advice, just ask anyone who knows me. Following it on the other hands, isn’t always my thing. I even find it hard to follow my own advice sometimes. In fact, my own advice is usually the hardest to follow. With that in mind, I thought I’d share my Favorite Tips for Writers.

These tips are ones that I DO follow, and I figure if I can follow them, anyone who has a true desire to be a writer mind also find them easy to follow.

Sasha’s Top Tips for Writers
1) Write regularly.
I’m not a fan of the write every day school of thought. I don’t write every day. For a while I tried to make myself write every day, but I found that I just stressed myself out because I’d spend hours staring at a blank screen or letting myself be distracted by blogs, games, and playing with photos. What I have learned is that if I designate one (or 2) full days a week to only writing, I get a lot more done. So most days I work on my blog posts, my reading, research, catch up on tv shows, work my night job, have lunch with friends….whatever. I have a life on those days. Then on my designated day (or days) all I do is write. I get up focussed, I turn the ringer off the phone, I don’t go online, and I write.

This works for me. Sometimes its one day a week, sometimes two. The deeper I get into a story, the more time i spend on it. The key is that I don’t pressure myself to write every day, just every week. And that allows me to find more balance, and be more focussed when I DO sit down to write.

2) Don’t wait for inspiration.
It’s greta to be inspired, but you can’t depend on it. The only thing you can depend on is yourself. So instead of looking for inspiration, why not think about how what you write might inspire someone else?

3) Carry a notepad -or have one on your phone/iPod.
Just because you shouldn’t wait for inspiration doesn’t mean you can’t use it when it strikes, and inspiration almost always strikes when you’re doing anything other than writing. So always carry something to jot down notes on.

4)Finish what you start.
There are few things that can compare to, or encourage , a writer like finishing a project can. Be it a book, a short story, a special blog post…get in the habit of finishing things. It’s a good habit.

5) Follow your instinct.
It’s great to have beta readers, or critique partners, but always remember that what you’re writing is your work. Those are your characters. It’s your story, and it’s going to have your name on it. Follow your instincts and don’t be afraid to ignore someone’s input or buck a trend.

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Monday, January 18th, 2010
What inspires you?

I went to see Michael Jackson’s THIS IS IT when it was in theaters. Not so much because I’ve always been a MJ fan, but because At one point in my life, I was. I was in junior high when Thriller was released. All through junior high and high school MJ was there at every dance or party. I never really took a stand on if I thought he did or didn’t do some things. To me, there were others in the world who had much more knowledge than I did, and I wasn’t going to judge. I preferred to focus on the music. And knowing that his songs were such a big part of my memories, I thought “How can I not go see this?”

And I’m so glad I did. The show wasn’t exactly what I’d expected, but it was better. It wasn’t about Michael’s life. It was about his music, his talent, and his energy. The man himself, and the concert preprations, and wow…what a concert it would’ve been. They had some amazing things planned.

The music. The writing. The words…That man had a magical way with words, and there isn’t anyone who can deny it. When I left the theater all I wanted to do was go home and write. I wanted to be positive, to live life and focus on the good. Life, and those who surround you in your daily life, can sometimes break you down. Be it bad reviews for your books, a cranky co-worker or boss, someone who cut you off on the road, things can pile up on a person and we lose ourselves in the negativity. I’ve learned one way to pull myself away from that is to focus on what *I’m* doing. Yes, self centered. But really, sometimes all a person has control of is themself. And one of the things I’ve been using lately to help stay positive is music.

The other day I felt like I needed a positivity boost so I downloaded the soundtrack from THIS IS IT. Listening to the album not only makes me feel good, it inspires me.

What’s inspired you lately?

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Monday, January 4th, 2010
January 4th

OMG, It’s Monday. Finally.
I’m thinking life can get back to normal now. Or at least what passes as normal for me. I love the holiday season, but it can sure fuck with my head.

I did a Reading Pleasures post at Genreality the other day, and thats about the extent of my year end thoughts. I’m constantly trying to be more organized, and always working on improving my healthy habits, so I have no resolutions, and no big plans for 2010 other than to keep on moving forward in life.

Today I’m going to go to the bookstore and spend my Gift Card. Then I’m going to sit on my couch and read all day and into the night. It’s my first day off, with no other family/work obligations in more than a month. YAY! Relaxation Day. Tomorrow I start writing a short story for the Mammoth book of Hot Romance. It’s due at the end of the month, and I’m quite excited about it.

Since it’s a short story, and it’s hot romance, not erotica, I’m thinking I might revisit a couple from one my previous books, but I’m having a hard time deciding which one. I need help, so vote below for the one you’d like to see a short story from.

Tyla and Max from ABDUCTION

Katie and Joe from BOUND

Joey and Mike from TROUBLE

Sarah and Nealon from WISH UPON A STAR

Or something completely new?

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Friday, November 6th, 2009

My Horoscope for Friday
Don’t be afraid to challenge your own excuses, for until you constantly check yourself, you run the risk of establishing a truth for one reason and sticking to it for another. Just because something was true or valid in the past is no reason to assume that remains the case. You’ve got to be open to constantly revising your version of the truth, knowing that it changes and evolves as your life does. Continue to have an open mind.

You know these things, they come in to your email box every day after you sign up, some of them make sense, some are so generalized you don’t even read them (Well, for me anyway). This one is pretty generalized too, but when I started to read it, it struck a chord. Especially after my post at Genreality Wednesday. I got some great advice on how to get myself focussed again, but really, it all comes down to one thing – take it seriously, and get to work.

I think the universe has just cracked the whip over me.

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Friday, July 17th, 2009
Workshopping

I’m over at Romance Divas, talking about Burnout all day today.

COPING WITH BURNOUT: Keeping The Fire Alive Under Pressure with SASHA WHITE

If you’re not a member, you will have to register, but it’s free. :)

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ANd if you haven’t rad Charlie’s latest post about Crazy Writers You’re missing out. It’s FABULOUS!

UPDATED TO ADD: Oops. I forgot abotuthe draw for my Donate and Win on the 15th!
I’ll post the winners later tonight. I have to run to work right now! Thanks for your patience

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Wednesday, July 8th, 2009
Writing Life

So, I’ve been told by another writer that I’ve been MIA for too long. I’m also getting reader letters asking why there’s nothing on my Coming Soon page, so I figure I should do a post on what’s up..or not.

I haven’t been writing. Not because I don’t have time, but because the desire is gone. I started out this year determined to do some work and get a new agent, somone who could help me decide on a path for my career because to be blunt, I’m not happy pumping out the same ol’, same ol’ stories time and time again. And thats what it was starting to feel like. I felt like I’d written the erotic stories I’d wanted to. When I was trying to think of story ideas to propose for new contracts I couldn’t fight the feeling that I was starting to regurgitate my characters, and their conflicts. Not only is that not good for me creativitly, but I’ve no doubt it would soon piss of my readers. I know I’ve had favorite authors that I stopped reading because it happened tht when I picked up a new release of thiers, I couldn’t help but think…“Haven’t I read this already?”

I didn’t want that to happen to me, or my readers, so I figured it was time to maybe alter my direction a bit. Now, let me tell you, finding an agent when you don’t have a book to sell or contract in hand is tough. I’ve learned a lot in this process. Some good, some not so good. One of the toughest things was, when I did find an agent who was willing to work with me to build a project, that I discovered it wouldn’t work. As much as I wanted to do things in an orderly and logical manner (IE: plot idea, write synopsis, write chapters, write novel) it didn’t work for me.

I wanted it to. Lord, how I wanted it to. But it didn’t. I’m not sure if it was the plotting or brainstorming, which I enjoyed at the time it was happening, that killed my creativity, or if I was simply trying to change too much of my own process at one time. Either way, it didn’t work for me, and that agent ( Who was wonderful BTW) wasn’t a good fit for me.

Now, I feel like I am starting all over from scratch. My own journey to publications was never what I would call average or on track. Things happened fast, probably too fast, and now it’s time to pay those dues that everyone has to pay at some point or another. The good thing about that? I’m determined to do it slow and easy, not fast and furious. I’m going for the marathon Gold, not the sprint.

So please, bear with me while I work towards putting more Sasha White books on the bookshelves. Your support and cheering means a lot to me.

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Tuesday, May 26th, 2009
Times flying.

Lord, I can’t believe it’s almost the end of May! The end of MAY people!!!.

I’ve been trying to get some writing done, and while I have gotten some done, nit’s not as much as I wanted. I have a dilemma. You see, I had an original idea (or so I thought) and I found someone I respect to help me work on it. And after all my times of asking for someone to give me feedback, I found it. Only to find that too much input and feedback really messes me up.

So after a month of trying to figure out how to work with my idea, I was ready to give up. Start something new, maybe go back to my first idea in a year or so. not one to give up so easily, I gave myself a deadline-today in fact- to have something to show for this idea. And the night before I started to write agian, another idea came to me. One I like even better. One that would take me on a different path, but yet, it seemed easier than the task I’d already set myself up for. So…what to do?

Well, I’m doing both. For now.

So, yes, I’m writing again. and writing a lot. One project that requires lots of research and so much thinking my brain totally hurts and I wonder if the story will ever see the light of day, because it is truly challenging. The other an idea I can have fun with. The funny part, I’m not sure either of them will ever see thelight of day with readers.

Okay, thats not true, one of them will for sure, but I’m not sure which one, or when. When /if I have news to share about either of them, I will share here first, but for now, I’m just telling you I’m writing again. That I actually have pages written, and not just an idea.

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Friday, May 15th, 2009
Life.

Yesterday was one of those days that really should be a movie (or a book). After trying to write all day, but being unable to focus beyond website/business choices, I went to work. For those of you just joining me here, I work part time in a sports bar/lounge. It’s popular place, with 8 big screen TV’s, a few video games (Golf and Buck Hunter) and almost a dozen VLT’s for the gamblers. (Video Lottery Terminals)

I can normally get a bit of writing done even while working part time, but I’ve come to accept that my brian sometimes just needs to focuss on the story exclusively. It works for me. Like binge eating, I binge write. So next week my schedule is I have three days off, then work one night, then another day off. I figured if I could get rid of my shift on Tuesday, I’d have 5 days off to do nothing but write, and I can get a lot done in 5 days. So I went to work and set about getting rid of my Tuesday shift next week. I work with a lot of college students and they’re done exams now, so they’re all in good moods, and they all want extra hours. A little finagling and I got it done. I was all happy and tell Shawndra, the other bartender in the bar with me, “I have 5 days off starting Saturday, I’m going to hermit away and write a book.”

She laughs and says. “You know, it’s funny. People often say they’re going to write a book, but you’re actually someone who will do it.

So everyone is in a good mood, the sun is shining, and the place is Not busy. We’re joking around as we work, nothing unussual, nothing special. Then about an hour later Shawndra tells me 2 guys are fighting over whose ticket is whose (from the VLT’s, one guy is accusing the other of cashing out his machine IE: steaing the guys money) I get the manager, because it’s her job to deal with these things. The manager speaks to them then goes upstairs. I figure she’d gone upstairs to check our security cameras and see what happened at the machines.

The one guy gets louder, and more obnoxious, cursing, causing a scene. So I ask him to keep it down. He said “My voice isn’t what you need to worry about.”

Uh Huh. So I talk to him for a second more, determine this guy is going to be a problem. No matter what happens it’s clear to me that this guy is looking to cause trouble. Not only have I been a waitress/bartender for 20 years (on and off) but I also spent a few years doing security work and dealing with specific situations much like this. My instincts are pretty good, I can usually read people pretty well. So I go call the police, and calmly explain the situation and ask them to send a car. Police think I’m clueless waitress who doesn’t know what she’s talking about and just need a big strong man to come save me. They say if it’s not a problem right now, call back when it is. He has a 911 call to answer. So I’m like. “Okay, but it’s gonna happen, I thought if you came now maybe we could avoid it.”

I go back to bar, and see new guy, one of my customers, in front of troublemaker guy and think. “Shit. Now we got customers trying to step in.” and head over to intercept and break up. Shawndra says new guy is a cop. As she says this, troublemaker guy say “I don’t give a shit about your badge,” and pushes cops hands off him. They take it to the ground and tussle. I step in to get 2 more customers to back off. Sure, they just want to help cop, who is admittidly about a foot shorter and 80 pounds lighter than troublemaker guy, but my thought, uh uh, no way do we want this turning into a brawl, back off. I get other guys to back off, give the cop some room. Cop is trained, let him handle it. Cop did. He soon had troublemaker subdued,(Pinned from behind and held in a half-nelson) but could not let him go, cuz guy did not want to give in.

Shawndra was on phone with 911(About a total of 2 minutes after I hung up with them, and maybe slightly less calm,) saying we had fight in progress, we need help. The response? They have no available cars right then.

She says, “Uhmm, just so you know, one of the guys in the fight is one of yours.” They send 4 cars right away. LMAO.

Not only was that funny, but Shawndra and I spent the night laughing over our good karma to have had an off-duty cop in the place at the exact time we needed him. He’d been sitting not 10 feet from it all the whole time, and he didn’t get involved until the troublemaker guy started really pushing the first guy to get physical. (This is while I was in the service area on the phone with the cops & couldn’t see what was happening).

Shawndra says she’s glad I was there to deal with it because she wouldn’t have stepped in to stop the others from joining in the fight, and it was obvious there wouldn’t been a bigger problem. I say I was glad the cop was there, because if he hadn’t been it would’ve been me who had to deal with trouble maker, and while chances of it getting pysical with me are smaller,but not non-existent, it would’ve taken longer and been more of a drawn out scene. Yes, our manager, who is a new manager, and a young female, and not comfortable with any sort of confrontation, was upstairs in the office while everything happened. When she came back down, the fight was over and the cops were there.

After dealing with that stuff, the handle on our slush machine came off, and it sticky slush mix spewed on the floor. So we began watching and waiting for the faucet to come off our tap and shoot a fountain of water into the air and over the customers sitting at the bar, as it’s done half a dozen times already this week, but karma was still in our corner, and it never happened.

The lesson meant for the police? When a woman calls and tells you calmly that there is going to be trouble, don’t think just because she’s calm and not screaming, that it’s not true. Not all of us get hysterical when we sense trouble coming.

The lesson for us, Shawndra and I are a good team. I’m good under pressure, and she’s good at smoothing ruffled customers afterwards.

Now I’m off to work for tonight,*fingers crossed for a good night* and then I still get Tuesday off and have five days to write uninterupted.

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Sunday, May 3rd, 2009
Online Workshop

I’ve been asked to teach an online workshop at Romance Divas for their Not Going to Conference session. I’d like to do one, because I love RD, but I don’t know what to do a workshop on.

Writing Hot has been done so many times before. I’ve done workshops on The Erotic Market and Writing Short. Last year I did my workshop on Voice here on my blog, and I’m at a loss for a topic for this year. So, what would YOU like to see me do a workshop on ?

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