What men like in bed.

Because the heroines in my stories are all kick -ass hottie’s who make men weak with desire I do a lot of research for my novels – get your mind out of the gutters- I mean I read a lot, talk to a lot of people , ask a lot of questions…that sort of thing about what gets a man all hot & bothered.   (That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.) Those who have met me in person can attest to the fact that I’m not really the shy type, so I ‘m not afraid to ask nosy questions, and well, I thought it would be fun to start this weekend off with a post about some of the fun facts about men I’ve learned.

This is not scientific, and I have no notes to back up these statements, but from my research I’ve compiled a list of things men like in bed.

Be Noisy Men might not be eager to have a heart-to-heart talk, but when it’s time for some sex’n they like to hear from you. They like to know when they’re doing something right, and something wrong. It’s a point of pride for them to be good, and their not afraid of a little direction.  And if you’re comfortable with it, there’s no need to be a lady about it,  some say, the filthier the talk, the better the sex. Tell them what you like, gently, or explicitly…and they’ll do their best to deliver. If words are too much to ask for, then don’t be shy with the moans and sighs, gasps and squeals.

Put a little effort in: Men want to feel sexy too. They want you to want them, so show it. Don’t be shy about touching them everywhere. You want them to fuck you harder, don’t just say it, but work at it, push /thrust against them too. They’ll give what they get.

Oral Sex: really, does this need an explanation? Men love blow jobs, but they hate having to always ask for them. It’s not as enjoyable when you act like it’s a chore, so show some enthusiasm-and if you’re open to it, swallow. It makes him feel like a king.

Show Time: Men are visual creatures, and doing it in front of a mirror, or a video camera (for their own viewing pleasure) is a turn on. Masturbating for you is a turn on for some, and watching you touch yourself is something every guy said was a turn on. They don’t care as much bout perfect bodies as you think they do, most of them agreed that if you’re naked, and they’re gonna get some sex’n, then you’re perfect.








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5 comments for “What men like in bed.

  1. Amy
    November 9, 2012 at 7:44 pm

    Gotta agree with all of the above.

  2. November 9, 2012 at 8:17 pm

    I totally agree with all of this! Oh-and tell them how well-endowed they are. *G*

  3. November 9, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    Hi Amy. Glad you agree. ;)

    Yes,Eden! They love to hear how big/impressive their cock is. LOL

  4. November 9, 2012 at 9:08 pm

    Speaking from the guy side here, I couldn’t agree with you more Sasha. I prefer moans over actual words though, and we beg don’t start talking about your day as we foreplay, at this moment we do not care of it.

    Yes we care, but not right now, brains have moved to certain parts. Most guys though will understand the fear of video, but what I love is a sexy photo, or maybe a mirror. Last time we had a mirror, I was a hundred pounds heavier and that was not sexy, but maybe now. HMMMM

  5. November 10, 2012 at 5:34 pm

    Thanks for chiming in for the male side, Robert. Glad to see I got it right. ;)

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