Because the heroines in my stories are all kick -ass hottie’s who make men weak with desire I do a lot of research for my novels – get your mind out of the gutters- I mean I read a lot, talk to a lot of people , ask a lot of questions…that sort of thing about what gets a man all hot & bothered. (That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.) Those who have met me in person can attest to the fact that I’m not really the shy type, so I ‘m not afraid to ask nosy questions, and well, I thought it would be fun to start this weekend off with a post about some of the fun facts about men I’ve learned.
This is not scientific, and I have no notes to back up these statements, but from my research I’ve compiled a list of things men like in bed.
Be Noisy Men might not be eager to have a heart-to-heart talk, but when it’s time for some sex’n they like to hear from you. They like to know when they’re doing something right, and something wrong. It’s a point of pride for them to be good, and their not afraid of a little direction. And if you’re comfortable with it, there’s no need to be a lady about it, some say, the filthier the talk, the better the sex. Tell them what you like, gently, or explicitly…and they’ll do their best to deliver. If words are too much to ask for, then don’t be shy with the moans and sighs, gasps and squeals.
Put a little effort in: Men want to feel sexy too. They want you to want them, so show it. Don’t be shy about touching them everywhere. You want them to fuck you harder, don’t just say it, but work at it, push /thrust against them too. They’ll give what they get.
Oral Sex: really, does this need an explanation? Men love blow jobs, but they hate having to always ask for them. It’s not as enjoyable when you act like it’s a chore, so show some enthusiasm-and if you’re open to it, swallow. It makes him feel like a king.
Show Time: Men are visual creatures, and doing it in front of a mirror, or a video camera (for their own viewing pleasure) is a turn on. Masturbating for you is a turn on for some, and watching you touch yourself is something every guy said was a turn on. They don’t care as much bout perfect bodies as you think they do, most of them agreed that if you’re naked, and they’re gonna get some sex’n, then you’re perfect.