March 2nd, 2006
Like Cowboys?

Beth sent this out on her Cowboy Lovers Yahoo loop and I had to share cuz it made me grin first thing this morning. Skating Cowboys

Also, The March Issue of Secret Thoughts will be going out to subscribers today. It has a free read from Charlene Teglia and a wonderful teaser from S.D., not to mention the regualr colums from Beth, Nix, JJ and I. :)

The Game face ( ) has worked real well for me this week. I’ve been productive, and happier. But still not finding any men to fantasize about. Is it wierd that even if I don’t really want to get toknwo or date the guy, that I liek to have a “dream Man” around. It needs to be someone that is a ‘possability’ . You know. Like a little girl crush. Someone who I can think about when I lay in bed…falling asleep. Okay, so maybe not a little girl, crush.

Do you, even you married people, do you like to have someone to fantasize about? Even if you know it’ll never happen, but someone that you work with, or see at the gym, or something like that? Or are you happy fantasiing abotu your Hubby (Or wife) ?

11 comments to “Like Cowboys?”

  1. Those skating cowboys, they rock! And they’re so hot, all of them. What a great performance.

    I’m putting on the game face.


  2. Okay I can so relate to you! It’s my first time to your site and I love it btw. And I’m single, and pushing 30. Do I like a man to fantasize about? What are we talking about here, while getting off? Or… just always having the possibility guy to keep you going. I love having a possibility guy, but I think I finally gave up on that possibility. Now for the getting off part–sorry if i’m being crude and off topic–i just use a scene i remember. Movie, book, imagination….


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    I guess I can do both fantasy guys AND the real ones.

    And actually, sometimes I prefer the real ones I KNOW it would never work out with. I’ve yet to find one that lived up to the fantasy.


  4. Charli~ Aren’t they great?! I loved it. The butt wiggle and thrusting with the “little more action” Uh huh. I’d give ‘em some action!!

    Shelli~ Welcome to my Blog!! Be as explicit as you want. LOL ANd I’m talking about both. I love to have a man/crush just in mind. Someone to day dream about. The sexual fantasy aspect, in my own mind at least, tend to be more about a nameless facelss man. WHen I’m concentratign on pleasing myself…I think about the acts/sensations that would please me.

    Raine, I’ve yet to meet a man as good as the fantasy too….and I don’t thinkI ever will… but fantasizing is soo much fun, anyway!


  5. Does Hugh Jackman count? Okay - the guys I see on a regular basis (real time) aren’t exactly dream material. But I always have a crush on a celebrity or even a character. Always!


  6. When I fantasize, I fantasize about strangers. The nameless man (men?) who pleasures me at will. Funny, I’ve dreamed about sex with DH, but not fantasized. I mean, truly, he’s already there and we can do whatever we want.
    The stranger fantasy is much hotter. That’s my confession!
    Glad the game face is working. Mine got misplaced for a few days, but I think I found it.


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    I have been married for 13 years. I fantasize about guys. There is a sexy guy at work and I flirt he flirts. But it’s all harmless fun. Now those were some cute cowboys.


  8. Everybody needs fantasies. Everybody. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we have fun imagining things we would never do, don’t we?


  9. I never imagine anybody that I wouldn’t do


  10. Hell yeah. DH and I fantasise all the time - it’s healthy

    Although most of my fantasy guys aren’t real, they’re made up in my head lol - the joys of being a writer, last night there was a menage with two of my heros

    yes, I’m truly wierd.


  11. I think fantasies are fun and healthy. Hell, the heroes we write about are fantasy and we’ve got to have a thing for them to write them well. *g*